Welcome to IKEAFans, elsucka,
There has been discussion in the past about the difficulties of painting/staining the IKEA veneer. It's not very thick and it's pretty well coated
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/a clear top coat.
That being said, I thought I saw Karen McAloon on HGTV's Design Remix (
Design Remix : Shows : Home & Garden Television) take a Lack looking side table, spray it
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/a primer, then spray it black. She mentioned that the primer is the key.
You might want to search for the threads using the search box in the upper right to find a thread or two to see what others have said about their experience.