I really, really like how your kitchen is shaping up. You must be so proud.
I have to say that I agree with you. While in most instances the white granite would be the preference, I'm not particularly fond of it in your kitchen. I think I kinda get the feel you're talking about. I'm not feeling it in your kitchen either. However, while I like the brown granite better than the white one, is there a possibility of getting a differnt sample of some type of white - possibly not as busy as the white you currently have? That might be a possibility. I think as your kitchen continues to go up, your getting different samples might be a great thing.
While I understnad what you're trying to achieve with the stainless doors underneath the sink, I'm thinking the BB might look better. Aslo, the stainless doors are hard to keep clean, specially right below the sink.
Cant wait to see more pics of your space.