Gompol - I know that the folks in Charlotte, North Carolina campaigned for years before they were announced to be getting a new IKEA down there in 2009.
I'm with you on wanting another IKEA further south, but I think there may be a few limiting factors for Va. Beach. First, there's no land left in Va. Beach, and an IKEA requires ACREAGE. Second, 64/264 aren't exactly major highways (in the scheme of things) and aren't the highways upon which IKEA's products currently flow (think 85/95). Third, a little bird told me that IKEA doesn't plan to expand more in North America beyond their currently announced/planned openings for a while. Doesn't mean it would never happen, though...one can always hope.
And I agree it would be nice! I grew up there and my mom still lives there, and we visit fairly frequently. Maybe if I could get her into a store she'd stop thinking I'm crazy for spending so much time on this site!!
Susan