Hi everyone,
My husband and I live in South Dakota and we installed a brand new Ikea kitchen in our house three years ago. Since we did everything long distance (closest Ikea is Twin Cities, which is three hours away), this forum was an incredible amount of help!
My parents have seen how much we love our kitchen and now want an Ikea kitchen of their own. The problem is, they live on the west side of the state. The closet Ikea is still Ikea Twin Cities, but it's almost nine hours away for them.
Since we've been through the process before, my mom enlisted our help. My husband called to Ikea Twin Cities this afternoon to ask about faxing the order in, and was told that he can
only fax his order on the day he's planning on picking up his order. 
He was also told that it can't be held for more than one day, it's first come first serve.
This is totally different than the process we used three years ago- we designed our kitchen using the Ikea software, printed out our order, faxed it to Ikea Twin Cities, they faxed back a confirmation and credit card sheet. We then faxed back that information, and they called us in about two weeks to tell us that our order had arrived and we had a week to pick it up. We then drove up and picked it up, no hassles, and no worries about whether or not everything was in stock.
Has this completely changed? My concern is that we're going to fax in the order, and not everything is going to be in stock. Time is somewhat of an issue because my dad has taken two weeks off of work at the end of August, in which he anticipated hauling the kitchen back to their town and installing it.
I know that ordering through Ikea Direct is an option, but it's one that my parents probably won't want to take, especially if shipping is around $900 like I've read on this forum. My dad was anticipating on making a few trips up to Minneapolis to make sure he had everything he needed (using our home as a base), and I'm sure that even then gas won't cost $900.
Does anyone have any insight into this? Did we just get a really confused Ikean on the phone?